Thursday, May 26, 2011

Farewell

"I shall wear a crown,
I shall wear a crown
When it's all over....

I'm going to put on my robe,
Tell the story how I made it over."

I love that song. Whenever I hear it, I think of the fact that someone's life is over but they know that they are on to a better life eternally in heaven. The life will be so glorious, in fact, that they will wear a robe and crown. Majestic. They end their lives here on earth victoriously and go on to everlasting life royally and triumphantly.

Yesterday and today marked the "end" for some but I say that they learned their lessons, triumphed victoriously and are going on to triumphant new beginnings now. The biggest "end" that comes to mind for me is the end of the Oprah Winfrey show. After 25 years, Oprah has truly become a legend. So influential has she been that anything that she touched was guaranteed to make money. The Oprah effect. She went to a bakery outside of Chicago and mentioned a pastry that she loved there. They couldn't keep up with the demand for this pastry afterward. All because Oprah liked it. Amazing.

I have grown accustomed to knowing that Oprah was on the air and, while I didn't always watch the show (I didn't always find interest in the topics or guests), I always had the comfort of knowing that she was going to be on at 9:00 am CST and again at 11:00 pm CST. I looked forward to laying in bed to watch her on my days off. She was just like a trusted friend in that sense - always around. At the end of her 24th year, though, she announced that she was going to end the show after 25 years. We knew the entire season that this time would come but many were still saddened once the end finally came. But Oprah ended the talk show talking about the lessons that she learned over time. Aha moments. That people need to be validated. That education can change lives, etc. I remember when she decided to change the format from the "who's the baby's daddy?" genre to something more constructive. She grew as her show grew and her fans reaped the benefits. The show is over now andt Oprah wears her crown and robe, knowing that she is going on to continue to do great things. Oprah will now run her own network, the Oprah Winfrey Network. She will continue to do philanthropic activities. I know that we haven't heard the last from her. She ends something to begin something bigger.

And then, today, the Chicago Bulls lost the series against the Miami Heat. This will mean that the Heat and the Dallas Mavericks will play in the NBA Championship. The season is over for the Bulls. They need to hold their heads high. Put on your crowns and robes, Bulls! By all accounts, they shouldn't have made it to the playoffs, let alone to being just short of making it to the championship! In the process, we crowned the youngest NBA MVP in history, Derrick Rose (22 years old). We have a team that has learned to play through injuries, naysayers and, perhaps, a little insecurity in their abilities. But they have learned that they CAN win! We didn't get swept! In fact, we played very well against the likes of LeBron James, Dwyane Wade, Chris Bosh and other veterans. The team will be fine! We end this season but look forward to what's to come in the future.

To quote Oprah, "To God be the glory". Well done, Oprah and the Bulls. Well done.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Change

"A change, A change has come over me" Those are some of the lyrics from one of my favorite songs, Changed, by the late, great Walter Hawkins. Thinking of that song brings to mind the fact that we all go through changes at some point in our lives. Some of them may seem to be negative and some more positive but I believe that you can find a lesson in all change and, if you learn the lesson and apply it to your life, then change becomes a great thing.

I realize that I'm going through some change right now. I have been at my present company for almost 5 years. In the same office, same building, some of the same clients. I just moved to a new building and will be transitioning in the next two weeks from those very clients who I have had since I started at the company. I realize that it could be scary because it's new but I do have the comfort of having already gotten acquainted with many of my new clients and I'm working with people who I know and like. The bigger change will be in my daily routine. I'm used to driving to work, taking the elevator upstairs to my office and working there until time to leave. Now I'll drive to work, get on a shuttle bus, take the elevator up to work and then shuttle back to the other building to get in my car when I leave. So I'll be on more of a schedule (it's a long walk or cab ride if you miss the last shuttle), which I haven't truly had to do in a while.

But here are the good things with this change. I'll have to learn to work more efficiently to ensure that I've accomplished my goals before I leave. I'm in the heart of the Loop in Chicago again. I haven't worked in the heart of the Loop since 2001. I'll again be in the heart of the action - the pulse of the city. While we had a fitness center in the old building, I'm close to a health club in this new building that has better class hours for me so, instead of trying to run downstairs for a 5:15 pm class, I can take one at 5:30 pm or 6:30 pm if I'm not able to go during my lunch period. And being in the heart of the city means that I'll be closer to other people so I can do more networking after hours for my Soul Purpose business. So, the change may seem a bit inconvenient and unnerving but, in the end, the change is good.

I recently learned that one of my Soul Purpose sisters has decided to leave the company. I'm saddened because she has been encouraging to me since the beginning. I remember when she made it to Diamond Executive. I told her that I wanted to make it, too, and she said that I would. And she was one of the first to congratulate me when I did make it. She's such a joy, a ray of sunshine. But she needed change. So, while we will be working in different businesses now, we'll still keep in touch. I'm praying for her prosperity as I'm sure that she's praying for mine.

This is not the first time that Soul Purpose has endured change. We lost one of our highest ranking consultants earlier this year. I remember wondering what it would mean for the company. I realize, now, that it just meant that we were going through change, a metamorphosis, if you will. It meant that we were growing and sometimes growing can be painful. But we are still here, going strong, and getting better as we grow and learn our lessons.

A caterpillar turns into a cocoon before it becomes a beautiful butterfly. A strong jumping frog begins as a tadpole with no legs from which to propel. As these insects and animals change through life, we must do the same. It may not be comfortable. It may even get ugly at times. But the end result can be a thing of beauty!

Monday, May 23, 2011

Praise Him...any how, any how!

I love gospel music. The rhythm and vibe not only speak to my soul but the lyrics often prove to be a testimony for me during different times in my life. Sometimes the lyrics are scripture. Sometimes, they are just reflection of what the songwriter was feeling at the time when he or she wrote the song. Either way, the music resonates to me in so many ways.

There is a song that was written a while ago. I don't remember the lyrics, title, composer - none of that! I remember that the tune was catchy and that the basic theme of the song was to praise God at all times no matter the circumstance. Praise Him any how, any how!

During particularly rough times in my life, I have often wanted to throw in the towel. I remember looking for a job when I decided that it was time for me to leave my last company. I started looking in December, 2005 and it took me until November, 2006 - almost a year later - to find a new job. I was frustrated, angry, disappointed - all of the above! I knew that the place where I was working was toxic and was not going to be the place where I ended my career but I had to endure it for almost a year longer (I stayed there for five years) before I could make the change. There were times when I wanted to just throw in the towel on the job search. Just stay at my old job and endure the agony. But I had to push through. I had to remember that I was still alive and well, gainfully employed and able to do the things that I wanted to do in life. So what if the place wasn't where I wanted to be at that moment? I had to praise Him any how, any how.

I have sometimes felt frustration in being a business owner when not everyone is bought in to the business. Not everyone shares the vision. Some will tell me up front, some will advise that they are interested and then never return a call when I reach out to them and some of them sign up and then never do the business. There are days when I want to just be a Soul Purpose customer and not a business owner. But there are days when I see how much the product has made a positive effect on someone because of the improved condition of their skin. Or I see how I have helped to enrich someone's life by helping them start a business and, potentially, get out of debt, buy something that they needed for their children, etc. So the disappointing times are far outweighed by the rewarding times and I praise Him through it all, any how, any how.

Rae Lewis Thornton spoke at my church this past Sunday. To those who don't know her, she has been an AIDS activist for many years. Anyway, she talked about some of the ups and downs of living with AIDS. She could have thrown in the towel years ago. Lord knows that others tried to throw it in for her because of her full blown AIDS. But she persevered and kept on moving. She's now an ordained minister, small business owner and motivational speaker but even the latter has been a challenge as speaking engagements don't always come in as planned. Praise Him any how, any how.

Jim Rohn said "Learn how to be happy with what you have while you pursue what you want". I love that quote. I like to add, "...and continue to praise Him in your pursuit...any how, any how."

I'm back!

Shame on me!

Shame on me for having such an awesome tool like a blog and not using it to it's fullest potential! It's horrible that it's taken me almost 2 years to get back on track with this but I'm going to do my best to write more and to share my thoughts. I have so much on my mind at times. It's very healthy for me to write and to hear your thoughts about what I've written. So I'm back! Sharing my thoughts and looking forward to hearing from all of you!

Let the prose begin!